Words of wisdom for grads

     "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."

— Eleanor Roosevelt

 
     It's that time again for students to don their caps and gowns, as they march across the stage to receive their diplomas. It's truly a memorable occasion, having reached an important milestone in their learning journey. 

     How appropriate to name the ceremonies, "commencement exercises," as graduation is not the end, but the beginning of a continued lifetime of learning. 

     A quote from Arie Pencovici suggests: "Graduation is only a concept. In real life every day you graduate. Graduation is a process that goes on until the last day of your life. If you can grasp that, you'll make a difference."   

     

     What a neat experience was mine this past weekend, as I watched my lovely granddaughter Ashton Brooke, graduate from Abbotsford Traditional Secondary School. Feelings of nostalgia — akin to empty-nesters surfaced — as I realized this was, indeed, my last grandchild to graduate from high school.  

     I was impressed with the program, and especially with Kyle, their valedictorian, as he represented his fellow classmates. 

     Quoting portions of his significant thoughts..."The universe returns what it receives, and if we put forth humility, and joy for others, the light which illuminates from our future will become our greatest ally on our darkest path." 

     I especially liked this one — "The human face has limited space. If we fill it with laughter, there will be no room to cry," and, "Do not remorse over what is changing, live within the moment and receive this new world with a smile."  

     What great advice!  The principal's remarks were filled with words of great wisdom. He exhorted the students, giving three succinct statements for them to remember as they journey through life, emphasizing each with short illustrations. 

1. Recognize the significance of those around you. Life is not all about you.  

"A student, when writing a test, found a question he could not answer. It was, 'What is our janitor's name?' Questioning the necessity of such a question, he was reminded that everyone you meet are special and are to be respected." 

2. Do not avoid obstacles in your path. Each one is there for a reason.  

"A large rock on a much-travelled pathway, became an object of complaint to the authorities, as to why it hadn't been removed, as travellers continued to make their way around it. One man carrying a heavy load approached it. Setting his burden down, he proceeded to move the rock with much effort. Doing so, he found an envelope under it, containing several gold coins. A surprise thank you to the one who would willingly deal with the obstacle."  

3. Learn to dance in the rain.  

"An elderly man appeared at the hospital early one morning, to have stitches removed from an injury. Everyone was busy as he anxiously awaited his turn. A doctor, noticing his anxiety, found he had an appointment to keep. Questioning the nature of the man's appointment, he learned the elderly man had a breakfast date each morning with his wife who has Alzheimer and lives in a care home. 'Does she know you?' the doctor asked. 'No, but I know her,' came the reply. Life is not how to avoid the storm, but..."how to dance in the rain."   

     To the many students who are graduating this month, may God bless them with self-fulfillment, compassion, personal prosperity, and most of all — an inner peace.     

     

     My great weekend included a visit with my dear friend, Margaret, at the Extended Care Unit of the Peace Arch hospital in White Rock. 

     Later, a tour and a renewed appreciation of the town with its, now, many modern looks. A delicious helping of fish and chips at Moby Dicks, topped off our day. What could be more satisfying to an aging Mom, than to experience such love and attention from a grown son? 

     

     As well as the gourmet meals I was served, Roger surprised me with a great addition to my patio — none other than a "something" called a "Beulah lantern." 

How unique is that?





— beulah