Nothing beats time together in person

     Our world we once thought of as “big,” has seemingly become “small” because of being connected electronically, like never before. 

     

     Immediately receiving news from afar while it is happening, is a wonder we now expect and take for granted. 

     But I am somewhat amazed at the way this generation has allowed this wonderful discovery to take over much of their waking hours. 

     Whether at a bus stop, walking in the mall or on the street, waiting for an appointment, sitting with friends at a restaurant — and unfortunately in some cases, while driving a car — they seem drawn to and controlled by their smartphone. 

     Having immediate help at hand if needed is wonderful, and has been a lifesaver in many instances. But like many other challenges we face daily, self-control over some of our actions is necessary. 

     We are continually hearing that distracted drivers are everywhere! It is making the commutes of those of us who are responsible drivers, more challenging and needlessly dangerous. 

     I am sad when I see two friends or family members sitting side-by-side, waiting for a transit or doctor’s appointment, busy on their trusty phones. 

     Nothing beats time together in person. 

     Sharing and laughing together, we can often sense the other person’s emotions as we watch their facial movements and look into their eyes. 

     Those with whom we love, whether family or friends, we should share with each other face to face. 

     Recently, I enjoyed renewed friendship with Norma, my longtime Calgarian friend. It was truly a serendipity — an unexpected ten-day visit as well as having sister Merle come and share our togetherness. 

     Recalling earlier escapades and trips we had taken together, we now found ourselves encouraging each other, as we continue on through stages called old age. 

Photo credit: B.C. Wildfire Management Branch

     As raging wildfires continue to take over much of our province this summer, we can only imagine the many friendships, that of necessity are being formed. 

     Many, that no doubt, will be lasting. How wonderful, that the very best  of human nature comes into play when serious events begin happening around us. 

     Our prayers are with the many, who are and will be, in dire circumstances, with an unsure future. 

     Who do most of us turn to at such perilous times? 

     As the old song goes, “Where can I go, Oh where can I go? Needing a comfort for my soul. Needing a friend, to help me in the end. Where can I go but to the Lord?” 

     Many, who normally live their lives oblivious to the God who created them and their world, and perhaps even having denied His existence, find themselves when in difficult circumstances, calling out to that same God they have ignored. 

     

     Why? Because, “He has set eternity in the hearts of men,” (Ecclesiastes 3:11), and deep down they know He is the only One who can bring comfort and peace at such trying times. 

     Because of Jesus’ death and resurrection, He has offered us His friendship. (John 15:15). We can meet and speak with Him as one speaks to a friend. 

     
     No doubt many of the firestorm evacuees have accepted His offer, sharing their hearts with Him as they would with a friend — their fears, burdens, and yes, their joys and thankfulness during these uncertain and frustrating days.



— beulah